Archives for January 2018

Pushing through the failures of 2017 to get to your best year ever!

2017 brought disappointments and failures and 2018 may seem like an opportunity to wipe the slate clean. So up goes the lists and vision boards of everything that will be brand new in 2018.  New work out goals, new boos, new focus, and new wins.  But somewhere in the midst of the excitement and plans for all things new we forget the valuable losses that are equally important as we head to a new year.  Yep I do mean failure and inside each and every one is a gem more valuable than all the new new you can load in your New Year’s cart.  Sometimes in trying to move on to something better we can purposefully forget the losses that can provide the true insight to get the things we desire.

The appeal of a new year is like a new present, often looking forward to something shiny with all the external trimmings and trappings. So we can all too quickly turn the page with the expectancy that suddenly everything will be different.  At the root of it, this option can be a lot easier than admitting the opportunity to start over not only comes every year, but with every rise and fall of the sun.  Yes the opportunity to start a new was there for 2015, 2016, 2017, and 2018, indeed it is there every day of your life.  So where does the fulfilled promise of a new future really stand?  I think it lies in part in a collection of lessons from the past.  Taking the time to welcome and accept your failures so you can see the landscape for what it was.  Yes missed opportunities, yes to not working as hard as you could have or lacking the consistency to win.  In each of the sore spots from the last year can be a bright spot for your New Year and new life.

So how do you get back down to the lessons that the past year has brought you. For me it begins with a simple list.  Making a top ten list of the biggest failures from 2017 in all their ugly glory.  First give yourself and opportunity to let it all out.  Let it all out, who did you wrong, what opportunities did you miss, what relationships failed to nurture any positivity.  Next think of how you could have changed things. This means just you, not anyone else as you are all you can control.  If you could have been more proactive write it down, if you could have been more understanding then write that down too and if you just need to accept things and people better then there is also a line for that.  Finally In all these find a way that things could have both gone better and gone worst.  The key in this exercise is to tap into the power you have every day to see things different, do things differently and appreciate the crazy ride call life while you still have an opportunity to get in on the game.

A Vegas New Year’s that gave me everything I needed

With all the razzle and dazzle that Vegas represents, wouldn’t it seem like the perfect location to bring in your New Year’s? Well for me this year the answer was yes and no.  The trip was everything I did not expect Vegas but in the perfect way.  When I first thought of the idea of going to Vegas for New Year’s Eve of course you think of all the parties and fun there is to be had on a regular weekend in Vegas.  Surely on a holiday weekend the fun is amplified.  Unfortunately while that might be true so is the traffic and cost.  I learned the hard way after arriving in around 8:30 pm that Vegas shuts down the strip after 5:30 pm for New Year’s Eve.   This means a 15 minute ride to get from the airport becomes a harrowing tale of getting around blockades taking closer to two hours.  But once you hop out the Uber you are again feeling on top of the world.  We ran over to check only to find out that hotels are limiting guest to those staying on premises for New Year’s Eve.  Okay now that is a real delay but it goes to show that good times are not always planned.

The key to a successful New Year’s celebration for me then became about hotel choice and exploring some of the other fun things about Vegas. Room choice cannot be easily corrected, so lucky for me I made a wise choice with the Aria.  As one of the more recent hotels on the strip the rooms are new and still luxurious.  As with all Vegas hotels they have their share of clubs and restaurants, even if they are not home to some of the main events.  But with an hour left to New Year’s I got my first fill of New Year’s Eve jollies with the phenomenal fire work display blasting from the roof of the Aria.  It was a great way to just stop the rush and hurry to get to the next thing and just enjoy!  From there instead of big clubs, lounges and restaurants caught my eye as a great way to have some things that feel your belly and things that fill your soul, enjoying quality time with the important people in your life.  The champagne I brought in the airport did not hurt at all as soothing my disappointment that my New Year’s did not go as planned, but instead went exactly as it should have gone.  I ended my night with late night winning on the roulette table that put some padding in my pocket and the fun mix of people circulating the table made sure to put a smile on my face.

The rest of my short trip to Vegas was dedicated to something that is equally renowned when it comes to sin city…the food. I popped into the Wynn to get a taste of a jazz brunch that had eluded me in other trips.  The Country Club in the Wynn is a popular steakhouse with a brunch that is nothing short of phenomenal.  The buffet items were barre none and I have been to a lot of brunches!  From cauliflower salad, to crab legs, to too many meat variations to name and personalized waffles this buffet had it all.  With a bottomless mimosa/Bellini, Bloody Mary selections and views of the golf course that made you completely forget where you were the Country Club had it all.  Mix in a great live band and yes even more food as you have an entrée selection at your table there was nothing more I could want from a 36 hour trip to Vegas…to my surprise.

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